What Women Hate to Hear
Posted on April 29, 2007 | Filed Under Dating, Communication, Attracting Women
There are numerous things women love to hear but in this article I will focus on what women hate to hear. Although they might not always be obvious to men what women hate to hear are sometimes the things that men might like to hear but I guess this just emphasizes how men and women can be so different in so many ways. The following is a list of just some of the things women particularly hate to hear especially before you get to know eachother.
What women hate to hear is when a man boasts about how much money he has or how many material possessions he has. If you are financially comfortable and you continue to see the same woman for an extended length of time she will see that you have money but if you brag about what you have it won’t help you win her over it will only make you look insecure.
What women hate to hear is a know it all. If you constantly reply to everything she says with the words “yes I know” she will get bored of you very quickly. So even if you know about what ever she is talking about do yourself and her a favor by sounding interested in what she says and she will stay interested in you.
What women hate to hear is “you have a hot body”. If she does have a very good body she already knows it and has probably heard that so many times before so you are better off saying something not so forward like “I really like those shoes”. This way she won’t think you want to get your hands on her hot body the first chance you get.
What women hate to hear is all about your ex girlfriends or any of your past relationship or sexual history. Talking about what you have done or what you don’t like about your old girlfriends is the fastest way to turn her off or maybe she will think you still have hang-ups with girls from your past.
What women hate to hear is when a guy asks to come into her place at the end of a date. If you are going to go into her home you better wait till she invites you or you will probably never go inside. Besides you don’t want her to think you really just want to get her into bed. She will invite you inside if she likes you, if she is not so keen on you, you will only make her feel uncomfortable and what’s the point of that.
What women hate to hear is “I’ll call you”. At the end of a date you may have every intention of calling her but if you don’t it will really let her down so it’s better to say something simple like “thanks for a good night I hope you sleep well”. Leave it open if you’re not sure about calling her, she would rather you be honest than lead her on if you are in doubt about seeing her again.
These are just some of the more obvious things women hate to hear, just use your common sense and keep the conversation relaxed and open. Don’t be judgmental about her even if it’s positive, you don’t want to appear desperate in any way. Just talk about generally positive topics and ask her about the things she likes. Never talk about anyone else in a negative way or she might get the early impression you may be a bitter person or have a chip on your shoulder even if you don’t. Get her talking about herself and you can’t go wrong.
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