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Picking Up Older Women

Posted on July 9, 2007 | Filed Under Communication, Attracting Women 

The art of picking up older women comes down to recognizing a number of important factors. No two factors may necessarily be the same with each older woman you want to pick up since only they know what they are looking for. Picking up older women first comes down to availability, if she isn’t available you are not going to pick her up and you might seriously offend her if you try. What you first need to do is recognize an initial flirtatious sign and go from there.

To pick up older women one thing you usually do need is confidence, you might get away with picking up a girl your own age without much confidence but older women usually want a guy with at least a fair degree of personal confidence. If you can show your confident side to an available older woman you are half way there if she is interested in you since all women love confident men.

Another advantage when picking up older women is to show a higher level of maturity. Older women who like younger guys might like to be held and spend time with a younger or much younger man although one thing they will rarely find attractive is immaturity. In fact if you cannot show her that you are at least marginally mature from the first few moments she sees you or when you first meet, you will have no chance at all. She is looking for a companion on some level, not a son and depending her and your age, certainly not a grandson.

Picking up older women doesn’t need to be difficult, in fact you may even find that to pick up an older woman might be significantly easier than picking up a younger girl or one closer to your own age. Let me explain why. With a younger girl you tend to have to play “the game” so to speak, since when a younger girl likes you she may show it by pretending not to like you and hoping you will still pursue her. I am sure you know what I mean and this may be the very reason why you are interested in picking up older women. With an older woman there is usually no game playing, they are completely over the whole game playing routine and want to get right down to business so to speak. No I do not mean jump straight into bed, although maybe some do, what I mean is they simply want to know whether you are interested and if you are, the relationship will evolve from there.

I would only suggest approaching an older woman if you had first been given at least a few indications she is interested. Like I said before, there will usually be no game playing involved when picking up older women so she will usually give you a clear sign by smiling at you a number of times or she might even be so forward as to invite you over to where she is standing or sitting. In any case, if you want to pick up an older woman, look out for the signals and respond accordingly by heading over to her and politely, in an unassuming manner, introduce yourself. Forget about corny pick up lines, this is not the underage disco, you will not need one. What you need to do is simply say hello and give her your name. Chances are she will do the rest and you just need to follow. By following I mean give her clear answers to her questions without too much detail and do not mention your friends, this is about you and her, she will not mention her friends or probably anyone else and neither should you. If you go on talking about how you came out with your buddies and you would like her to meet them or anything like that she will drop you and the conversation like a hot potato. Remember this, it is all about you and her and keep the details to yourself. You can elaborate on your life plans once you have successfully picked her up, there is no need to beforehand.

Successfully picking up older women means you need to engage them in some type of mature conversation, what you talk about should be general topics that could relate to people of all ages. She is older than you and perhaps much more mature so don’t go talking about your new skateboard or how your little brother can finally tie his own shoe laces. You would be better off asking her some general easy to answer questions and nothing that could in any way relate to her age, whether she has children or does she have a husband. Not only are these things none of your business, they will not help your chances of picking her up. It is best to simply just get her talking and follow on from there. This way you get to know her a little bit and most importantly see if you like each other.

Picking up older women can be a challenge in many ways and you need to keep an eye on what you say, avoid using profanity and one more thing I forgot to mention was to make a mild positive comment about how she looks or what she is wearing, this always works well and shows her you are observant and know at least something about what women like. I say make it a mild positive comment, there is no need to push the issue, just keep it brief and say it sincerely. If she likes you and you like her, you never know what will happen, it could be the start of a very special relationship.

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