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If a Girl Touches You

Posted on September 1, 2007 | Filed Under Attracting Women, Body Language, Communication, Meeting People 

What do you do if a girl touches you? This is one of the most common questions I have received in my emails to this site in the last couple of months. If a girl touches you it would in most cases be considered positive unless of course she was pushing you out of the way so she could get a seat on the train before you take it for yourself. Then again, maybe even getting pushed by a girl might still be something positive since many girls will not touch a guy in any way unless there could be something between the two of you.

When a girl touches you it is usually her way of making an encouraging gesture towards you. Of course there are those times when you are in a crowded or confined space with many other people and sometimes a girl might touch you simply to get around you or to stop herself from falling on top of you if she happened to lose her footing for example. In these cases, if a girl touches you it probably doesn’t mean anything. However, let’s take a look at some other situations when a girl touches you.

If you are in school and one of the girls is your class touches you when she could easily have not touched you, this is usually a sure sign she likes you. If she touches you, even without looking at you, she is using non verbal communication to say she likes you. If a girl touches you on a regular basis in school, there is no doubt about the fact that she likes you. Like most school girls she is probably quite shy and wants you to make the first move and perhaps ask her on a date.

If a girl you work with touches you and you know she is single, I don’t think I need to tell you what this means but for those who still are not entirely sure, it means you need to ask her out for lunch since lunch is easy for both of you to handle and you both have to eat lunch at sometime while you are at work.

When a girl touches you in any type of social setting you might at first be wondering if that touch was intentional and consider if she meant something by it or was she just being friendly. I would say in most cases, girls are very aware of their actions and would not touch by accident but of course there are exceptions to the rule so you need to be sure before you jump to any conclusions. Ideally you could give her the occasional glance and see if she shows any sign of interest which she may do. Although girls can be funny sometimes by playing a different tactic and give you nothing in return. This is where you need to make the next move and perhaps lightly touch her on the hand or the shoulder if you get the opportunity to chat with her or introduce yourself. However, touching a girl even on the shoulder is quite bold if you are not sure if she likes you and perhaps it would be wise to simply find out if she is interested first. It is ok for a girl to touch a man but it is not really the most gentlemanly act to touch a girl unless you know she is keen on you.

All in all if a girl touches you it is usually her way of saying she likes you and an affirmative type of body language she can use without needing to utter a word. Shy girls all the way through to the most confident of women use touching as a form of positive non verbal communication and by remaining alert and aware you can communicate with her without either of you needing to say a word and have fun in the process.

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