How to Increase Your Sex Appeal
Posted on June 8, 2007 | Filed Under Attracting Men, Attracting Women, Body Language, Communication, Meeting People
It’s a question both men and women have been asking for ages, how to increase your sex appeal. Well the good news is no matter what you look like or how you act you can always make an improvement and making improvements is the first step towards increasing your sex appeal. What attracts one person to someone might not attract someone else and this is a good thing since it means that everyone has their own opinion of what sex appeal is and who has it. We all have sex appeal we just need to know how to bring it out and express it.
One of the first things you can do if you want to know how to increase your sex appeal is to work on your confidence. Confidence is in my opinion the Rolls Royce of sex appeal. Nothing is or looks sexier to a girl or a guy than someone who clearly displays a confident demeanor. Confidence is so much more sexually appealing than good looks and a great smile that they are not even in the same category. I have witnessed during the course of my life confident people win with the opposite sex many more times than a hot girl or guy with minimal confidence win in regards attracting a person over and above a confident person. Yes, I agree that very good looking people have an advantage with sex appeal over those who are less attractive but a super confident person who may not be so hot will usually take home first prize when it comes to outright sex appeal.
Years ago I worked as a doorman at a few different bars and clubs on the weekends. I was only in my early twenties back then and had a limited amount of life experiences but even back then I loved to watch and observe the people around me. I worked with this one guy who was in his late twenties or maybe early thirties and he was almost completely bald. He was not what you would call a handsome man although he was reasonably fit and in good physical shape. The thing about this guy I first just could not understand was how many incredibly gorgeous women he always had around him. It wasn’t just me who noticed this, it was all the other guys I worked with and we all wondered the same thing, how does he do it? As I got to know him through work and I also knew him from the gym where we were both members he became a mate of mine and over time it became frustrating watching him attract so many gorgeous women. He was such a stud that only the hottest girls would even dare approach him.
One night while I was working on the door of a busy harbor side bar a girl I went to school with noticed me talking with my stud mate and after he walked away she came and asked me whether I knew him. I couldn’t believe it, this girl from school was real hottie and could have anyone she wanted but I couldn’t help but ask her why she was so attracted to this guy. Then she told me, she said he is so confident and you can tell he is confident the first moment you look at him. It hit me like a bolt of lightening and I understood in an instant what she was talking about. He was a really confident guy and you didn’t need to be a girl to notice it. If you are pondering the idea of how to increase your sex appeal you need to become confident in yourself, everything else you can do to improve yourself is just a bonus but the real key is confidence.
While you work on your confidence to improve your sex appeal something else you can immediately fix or improve is your dress sense. Perhaps you have good dress sense, some people have a natural affinity to what looks good on them but sadly some people make too many mistakes. To increase your sex appeal you need to accentuate your strengths and do your best to hide your weaknesses. The first thing you can do is toss out your old clothes, it is 2007 and old worn out clothes don’t look cool. You don’t need to be wearing the latest designer labels in fact you can buy your clothes from the cheapest of shops but wear clothes that fit you well. If you have big thighs don’t wear short mini skirts or if you have a big beer belly don’t wear a tight shirt, that isn’t sexy and will never help you increase your sex appeal.
Don’t use profanity when talking to the opposite sex, if you want to increase your sex appeal you can take one step in the right direction immediately and stop swearing so much or stop swearing all together. If you are a man who uses profanity you will look cheap and sleazy, if you are female and use profanity what type of man do you really want to attract. If you want to swear that’s ok I guess but do it with the friends you already have but don’t do it if you are trying to attract someone.
While pondering the thought of how to increase your sex appeal consider what you like in other people. I know that I like to be around interesting people. Interesting people are magnetic and magnetic is definitely sexy. If you can first impress their mind they will not only find you sexy, they will want to spend more of their time with you.
Physical appearance is definitely a big part of sex appeal so to increase your sex appeal you can first make some slight changes to your appearance before needing to make some bigger moves. A persons skin is a big part of their sex appeal and when you see someone with beautiful skin it looks great, you are more likely to want to touch them and it is super sexy. If you have bad skin, head to the beauty shop or pharmacy and enquire about some products that will help improve your skin. The same thing goes for your hair. Keep it well groomed and keep it clean, nothing looks more disgusting than dirty or overly oily hair. If you do not have much hair, than keep it shorter rather than longer. Also don’t forget about your personal hygiene, we all know that smelly is not sexy.
I left this till last since it could take a while to change but your body is a monumental part in regards how to increase your sex appeal. Ok, some people like heavy guys or girls but most people like a fit physique and if you are excessively overweight and looking to improve your sex appeal, working on your body through exercise and eating better will work towards increasing your confidence which as I explained earlier is an integral part of increasing your sex appeal. For most people diets dont work so you need to develop a consistent eating plan that you enjoy and can stick to.
By following these steps you can only improve yourself. As you do you will naturally become a more confident person and that will lead you to becoming a sexier person and who knows where that will lead to.
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