How to Get the Girl at Work
Posted on August 8, 2007 | Filed Under Dating, Communication, Attracting Women
Many guys are faced with the scenario of how to get the girl at work without embarrassing themselves or the girl. Getting the girl at work might seem like an difficult task especially if she is a hottie since you are probably not alone in wanting to date her. However, it might just come down to the guy who is prepared to make the first and most appropriate move on her. To get the girl at work could be a complex procedure but if it is ever going to happen you need to take action now.
I was once in the position of trying to figure out how to get the girl I work with but fortunately for me, most of the other guys I worked with were happily married and they were very supportive of me in my quest to get the girl and it all turned out well. Although what about when you have to do all the work yourself to get the girl at work, what is the best plan of attack?
One of the first steps in regards how to get the girl at work is to let her know you are interested without going overboard. When you are near her office or work area give her a smile every time you are around. If you start by giving her a smile once or twice per day she will pick up on this since girls are very intuitive creatures. Giving her a smile won’t get you a date but it will get the ball rolling between the two of you and make it much easier to start a conversation that is not work related.
To get the girl at work you need to stand out from the rest but in a good way. If you are going for after work drinks with the crowd from work and she is there, let her see that you notice her giving her your attention or by simply asking her if there is anything you can get her. Ask her about herself without getting too personal and tell her about yourself. Don’t get drunk while she is around and be on your best behavior even if she leaves. If you make a fool of yourself in front of your work peers there is a good chance she will find out about it.
Attracting the girl from work could be a lot easier than you think even if she is super hot since most of the other guys are probably to afraid to ask her out. If you can hold your own around her she will find this appealing since all girls like confident men. To get her interested in you tell her briefly about how exciting your last trip out of town was and what you plan to do on your up coming vacation. Let her see that you live an interesting life and you are more than just the guy who sits at the computer terminal in the next cubicle. If she can picture you outside the office and not wearing the suit or work uniform she might even picture herself with you enjoying an exciting weekend horse back riding in the country.
Flirt with her but don’t be obnoxious or rude, if you flirt with her in a subtle manner without being too obvious so the other staff blatantly pick up on your flirtatious behavior she might find this a real turn on and it’s the harmless flirting that can lead to you asking her on a date. Once she is aware that you like her and she clearly has no problem with your flirting with her, you should start thinking about making a move. How to get the girl at work does not need to be a drawn out procedure, in fact the longer you wait the more chance she has of going cold. Girls like men who take action and you are that kind of guy.
If your plan is to get the girl from work, focus on just one girl and not the entire office of female staff. If she suspects you are flirting with other girls at work you will burn your chances of ever getting a date with her and she might even send the word out amongst the other female staff and you definitely don’t want the reputation of being the “player” at work.
To get her attention let her see you interacting with the other female staff in a professional manner, not by flirting but simply having a mature conversation and perhaps even talk to her about what you and the other female staff have been talking about lately. If you notice any sign at all that she feels uncomfortable with you talking with the other girls in the office you know she must like you on some level. This is another perfect opportunity to act and ask her out.
Once you are fairly certain she is keen on you a good idea would be to see her just before you are about to head home and let her know about your exciting plans for the evening ahead. If she seems the slightest bit interested this would be an appropriate time to ask her if she would like to join you.
When she finally says yes and you go on your first private date away from work don’t be too forward with her, simply let her see that you are a relaxed kind of guy who doesn’t take things too seriously and have fun. Expect she might tell some of your work colleagues about the date and be on your best behavior. Depending on how the date goes and how she feels about dating a guy from work will determine whatever future you two may have together.
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Hey John!
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