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How to Become a Player

Posted on August 27, 2007 | Filed Under Dating, Communication, Attracting Women 

Many of the articles I write about on this site are related to attracting people or finding a partner but not everyone wants to be in a relationship or with a steady partner. In this article I will focus on how to become a player and what are some of the tricks to get girls interested in you immediately. Although a relationship is ideal for some, playing the field is even more alluring to others and there is certainly nothing wrong with becoming a player since we all have the right to choose our own paths.

The first step towards how to become a player is to release your fears about rejection. It is due to the fear of rejection that stops most guys from ever approaching and talking to a girl they like. The funny thing is that girls talk about this all the time, when they sense a guy likes them, most of the time they WANT him to approach them and usually they will go on a date with him for the same reason you want a girl, for the company, to make friends or perhaps for sex. This is the first step in regards how to become a player and if you can get your head around it, you are half way there.

How to become a player means playing the numbers game. If there are 100 tickets in a lottery and you have 50 of those tickets and your friend has only 1 ticket, who has a better chance of winning the lottery. You do of course since you have 50 chances and your friend only has 1. It is the same with becoming a successful player. The more girls you approach the more chances you have of finding one who is interested in you. On top of this, the more you practice approaching and talking to women the better you will get at playing the game and knowing what to say.

Another important step towards becoming a player is knowing what not to say. Remember this is about playing a game and the best chance you have to win the game is to keep on the most important topic at hand and that is you and her. So don’t mention how much of a stud you are and boast about how many women you have been with and don’t ask her about her past or about her last boyfriend, just concentrate on you and her, nothing more, nothing less.

One of the best ways in relation to how to become a player is to show your human side or show some vulnerability, girls absolutely love this trait in a man and you don’t have to come across as a wimp in the process. While in conversation with the girl you are after, tell her you can’t make it for dinner this Wednesday night because you are going to visit your grandmother or you do voluntary work at the children’s hospital two nights per month. I would highly recommend telling the truth when you expose your human or vulnerable side since this might get you in the door but if she finds out you are lying, she will not only give you the flick but she might also ruin your reputation as a player and this is definitely not what you want.

To become a player you should never appear desperate, if you ask her out and she says no, big deal, move on, do not ever cause a scene and respect her right to say no. You can always ask her out again on another occasion if you are cool about the rejection the first time, if you lose your cool and disrespect her, you will never be a player in the dating game. However, if you ask her and she says yes to a date, you know she must like you on at least some level so you don’t need to push the envelope and there is no need to appear desperate. At the end of the date you will both know if there is any chemistry between you and if there is, let her make the next move. If you really want her, don’t try and score with her on the first date, let it sizzle for a while and when it happens it will be better for both of you. If she pushes for something on the first date then you have to decide on what you want but it’s a nice decision to have to make.

Finally, one more tip on how to become a player is to get in shape, all girls the world over like a guy who keeps himself in good physical condition and having a certain degree of muscular fitness can help you get to where you want to be with a girl probably faster than anything that could ever come out of your mouth. In some cases if you are in good shape your body might just do all the talking that is necessary.

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