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How to Attract Love

Posted on August 20, 2007 | Filed Under Attracting Friends, Attracting Men, Attracting Women, Body Language, Attracting People 

It might sound a little cheesy but the first step towards how to attract love into your life is by first loving yourself. When you think about it, it makes sense, why would anyone else love you or love anything about you if you can’t at least find some things to love about yourself. Loving yourself is not about being cocky or arrogant, it isn’t even about being confident but it is about knowing that you have something to offer. It is by finding some self worth and loving yourself for it that will take you a step closer to attracting love.

How to attract love comes down to initially finding out what it is you love about yourself and also what aspects other people might love about the person you are. These things can be internal or external or ideally a combination of both. Some people might be quick to judge and say that what is external is not as important as what is internal and that may be true in some ways but if you can find something on the outside that you love about yourself, at least you can start somewhere and this can help you find other aspects on the inside that are worth loving. Let me give you an example.

Years ago an old friend of mine had a sister who was particularly attractive although she was not what you would call an academic if you know what I mean. Since she was so beautiful on the outside she never had any problems finding guys although all her relationships were always short lived. Sadly her problem was that most guys saw her as a conquest when she was young and naïve and because she wasn’t very intelligent most guys moved on as soon as they got what they wanted from her. It was horrible the way guys treated her but it seemed to happen over and over again and most of the girls in her social circle back then looked at her as being free and easy and because she was so attractive few girls gave her any sympathy.

As the years passed and she got into her twenties she stopped seeing guys altogether because she felt empty inside and there was nothing she loved about herself. She no longer felt attractive and hated who she was, she even started to dress down and never made the effort to wear nice clothes like she had always done before. She worked with her family and for a while I thought she had left town since I had not seen her for many months till one day I was going fishing with her brother and he asked me if he could bring his sister.

While the three of us were fishing that day my friend and I were talking about a “Power of the Mind” seminar we had recently attended when his sister asked us if we enjoyed the seminar. To cut a long story short, we spent the afternoon sitting in the boat not fishing but explaining to her how powerful her mind is and how self love can change your life. She was so desperate to find out how to attract love that she had given up making the effort to look beautiful anymore because she thought that was the reason why she always attracted the wrong guys and thought if she dressed down she might find someone who liked her without looking so glamorous. The truth was she would have still looked beautiful even if she was wearing a garbage bag but the reason why no guys were attracted to her anymore was because she never smiled and hated herself. She wore her self hatred like a sign above herself that said “stay away”.

I don’t honestly know if what her brother and I said to her that afternoon made her change but a few weeks later I saw her again and she was looking like a million dollars and said she was going to go with her strengths which were her looks and spend more time caring about herself and not looking to find a man to love her. A couple of years later she got married, that was over 10 years ago now and she has a whole bunch of kids and she and her husband are still happily together. She found out how to attract love by simply loving herself and everything else fell into place when a great guy fell in love with her.

When considering how to attract love, you need to go with your strengths. It does not really matter whether those strengths are internal or external it just matters that you can find something or a number of things to love about yourself. If you are academic, creative in some way, good with animals or children or have any special or unique gifts, no matter how abstract, this is a path you can take towards how to attract love. Through whatever your gift or passion may be you have such a tremendous opportunity to love this about yourself and the moment you begin to love a part of yourself, others will see this self love you have and this is not only attractive, it can be irresistible.

We are all naturally attracted to successful people and all successful people love something about them selves and it is through this self love that they are able to achieve success. How to attract love can come done to something as simple as doing what you are good at and as you become better and better at doing and loving what you do, this can only help you to attract love into your life.

How to attract love come down to what you do with your time and being successful at what it is you do will give you something to love. You get what you give in this life, if you put positive loving energy into any pursuit or endeavor you will get back more positive loving energy in some way. The same thing goes if you put out hateful or negative energy by your actions or through your thoughts, you will reap the same negative energy in return.

So you don’t even need to go out into the world looking to attract love but you can start right now by loving yourself and the more love you give to yourself and your ventures in life the sooner love will find its way back to you.

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