Body Language For Attracting People
Posted on April 25, 2007 | Filed Under Communication, Body Language, Attracting People
Body language is a pretty broad topic but in this article I will focus on body language for attracting people. I have heard all kinds of percentages being thrown around about how much communication that takes places between individuals is non verbal. The truth is it’s hard to say how much of our communication is non verbal but I can say for sure that your body language for attracting people is just as important as what you say to attract people.
Just like you can use positive or negative language while communicating you can also use positive of negative body language for attracting people. By simply keeping your eyes focused on someone else’s eyes when having a conversation with someone you like is an example of using positive body language for attracting people. If you are talking to someone you suspect could become a possible partner and they are constantly looking away or not giving you their full attention you know this is not body language for attracting people, rather it is body language to say “I’m not interested in you or what you’re saying”. If you like someone, even if you’re shy, at least keep your eyes on them as much as you can. It’s still ok to look away now and then since sometimes it gets a little uncomfortable for both parties if either person constantly stares.
The best piece of body language for attracting people is to smile. Smiling in my opinion cannot be overrated. In terms of body language for attracting people consider these two examples. You are a girl walking down the street and you see a guy you like walking towards you and when he notices you he looks away. Or you see a guy walking towards you and as soon as he sees you he gives you a big smile. Which is the better body language for attracting people? Of course you will say when the person smiles at you. However, what I can’t understand and I have noticed this since I was in school almost 20 years ago, why do so many guys and girls look away when they see someone they like look at them? Well truthfully I know why, it’s because they feel a little intimidated or shy when someone gives them a big smile but what I’m trying to get at is this is the best opening you will ever get and the outright best body language for attracting people you could ever use.
Girls play with their hair as a form of body language for attracting people and so many guys miss the boat on this one. If you notice a girl playing with her hair while you are talking to her, this might be a great time to ask her on a date or at least for her phone number.
Another out right winner in terms of body language for attracting people is when someone makes even the slightest touching gesture. It doesn’t matter if he or she simply touches you on the arm, the hand or lightly on the back. Any form of touch, although quite forward if you really don’t know someone very well yet, is a very positive example of body language for attracting people. I wouldn’t suggest touching someone on a first date anywhere on their body no matter how well the date has gone but then again it all depends on the situation and the nature of the date.
One more piece of body language for attracting people I wanted to mention was to take note of how close someone stands to you. If the person you are interested in or talking to stands in your personal space this is in my opinion yet another example of body language for attracting people since you do not deliberately stand too close to people you don’t like.
If in doubt or just for fun try some of these examples of body language for attracting people out on people you are interested in and see what reaction you get. If it’s a positive one I wish you all the best and remember, keep smiling.
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Very nice post. Thanks for clear ideas
i’ll try to use them in real life for better communication. I have moved to new city month ago and it’s time to find new friends here.
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