Attracting People
Posted on April 14, 2007 | Filed Under Meeting People, Attracting People
Attracting people to you may seem like just a random process of chance. However, I don’t believe attracting people comes down to chance at all, I believe we are in at least some control of who we attract into our lives. If you have been having trouble attracting people to you or attracting people into your life that you feel comfortable with you may find this article interesting. You may or may not be familiar with the universal laws of the law of attraction and the law of vibration but if you are not I will give you a basic overview on how you can use them in attracting people into your life.
If attracting people has always been a problem for you, why not have a look at what type of energy you are putting out into the universe. Before you step outside each day what type of things are you saying to yourself? What I mean is, what words are you saying to yourself in the chatter of your thoughts? Are you saying things like “I really don’t want to leave the house today” or “everyone I meet annoys me” or “I can’t stand going to that horrible place I work”? If you are making generally negative statements to yourself there is a definite possibility that other people can pick up on this negative energy and they will tend to avoid you. Although, you may find that the people you do manage to attract are the type of people who are thinking similar negative thoughts to themselves as well. Basically you are attracting people who are like you on the inside, how someone acts on the outside can be an illusion but you can’t hide how you really are on the inside in the same way you can present a false image to others on the outside.
What I’m trying to say is you are invoking the universal law of attraction at every moment of the day through your habitual thoughts whether you are aware of it or not and this also relates to your ability in attracting people. If you think you attract the wrong type of people then you will. If you generally feel positive about yourself and others you will find attracting people to be so much more agreeable since you will be attracting positive people like yourself. The law of attraction is not new information although it might be the first time you have heard about it. For a thorough explanation of the law of attraction click here.
Another reason why attracting people depends on what sort of energy you are emitting from the inside relates to the universal law of vibration. All things in the universe vibrate at different rates. Since every single thing within the universe can be broken down into the tiniest particles of energy, everything has its own level of vibration. A rock for example is very dense matter and vibrates at a very slow rate, water on the other hand is not so dense and vibrates at a higher rate. A human thought is also made up of energy and is not dense at all so it vibrates at a much higher rate. If you are an optimistic and happy person your rate of vibration will be quite high and you will attract other people who also reside at your higher rate of vibration. Those people who are pessimistic and generally unhappy will find they are attracting people into their lives who share their lower rate of vibration. You can read more information on the law of vibration here and learn ways to raise your vibration here.
In essence despite what you may have previously thought, attracting people is not an act of randomness. You are in charge of you thoughts although they can become difficult to control sometimes and therefore you are responsible for the people you attract into your life.
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