Attract Women
Posted on May 9, 2007 | Filed Under Meeting People, Attracting Women
To attract women you need to offer them or at least show them something they want. So what do women want or what do women want to see? That all depends on the woman. Attracting women might come down to the way you look, attracting some women might come down to the things you say or maybe what you don’t say and then attracting other women might be all about not giving them what they want. No matter how you look at it, attracting women is like a game of cat and mouse. Not all women want to play the game but you’ll have to organize your own game plan if you want to attract women.
I’m not going to say that attracting women is not easier for some men than others. Some men can attract women by not doing much at all and often that comes down to raw sex appeal which is what attracts certain women but may repulse other women. We have all seen what we believe to be some pretty mixed matched couples but for some reason their relationship works. Not all tall, dark and handsome men want supermodels and not all supermodels care mostly about what a man looks like. Chances are if your goal is to attract women you will find success if you do what needs to be done.
Attracting women first comes down to taking a long hard look at your strengths and weaknesses. By this I mean take a look at your entire package, from the way you dress, the way you comb your hair, what type of words you use when talking to people, the way you smell and the list goes on. Look at it and hold nothing back when you analyze your strengths and weaknesses in relation to you attracting women.
To attract women you need to look at what you like about yourself and know that there are women out there that also like what you like. There is a huge population of available women out there and you want to be ready to go with your strengths if you see a woman you would like to attract. The best place to attract women I believe is in your everyday life doing what it is you do and doing the things you like. If you hate doing certain things you probably won’t be giving off a positive type of energy in the same way you would when participating in something you like. It’s the same with work, if you are good at your job and people can see this, it’s attractive. If you look like you hate what you do it’s unattractive. Get where I’m coming from?
A friend of mine services fire extinguishers for a living, he goes to shops of all descriptions, work places, factories and private residences to check that the fire extinguisher at these places is working properly. Ok it’s probably not the most glamorous job but he likes it and knows what he’s doing. One day a while back he was at a supermarket talking to one of the staff about an old fire extinguisher that the company wanted to replace. The female staff member he was talking to he really quite liked but didn’t feel comfortable about asking her out because sadly he didn’t think she would like him until something happened. As she passed him the old fire extinguisher the main valve came loose some how and sprayed her with foam. My quick thinking friend pulled the fire extinguisher away from her and turned the spray towards himself until he quickly managed to stop the spray. This girl was a little shaken by this sudden incident but was visibly impressed with my friends quick thinking and thanked him for taking the action he took which left him covered in spray and only a little bit of spray landed on her. As she helped clean him up he decided this would be as good a time as any to ask her on a date and she immediately accepted. My friend had never been the ladies man but since he took advantage of this opportunity at the very moment it presented itself he ended up marrying this girl a couple of years later.
The point I’m getting at is take advantage of any and all opportunities to attract women. Attracting women is not an exact science and let’s face it, most of us don’t even know what we like till it is shoved in our face. For example if you are standing in the rain and you see a girl you like who seems to be getting wet go over to her and offer her the umbrella. You can literally see opportunities to attract women everywhere you go if you make a point of looking for them. No, you might not always be successful but you only have to be successful once, with the right girl, and it might just be the best thing you ever had the courage to do.
Successfully attracting women never means forcing yourself onto a woman, that will never work and is just plain dumb but there is no problem with taking the opportunity to attract a woman when it presents itself. If she isn’t keen on you she will let you know, no doubt about that but what if she’s keen, you’ll never know if you never go and talk to her.
If you suffer from low self esteem one way to work on your problem is by approaching a woman. Approaching and attracting women can take a bit of courage and by facing your fear is the fastest way to overcome your fear. If it’s easier, look at attracting women as a bit of a game you play with yourself. Do it in a lighthearted way without coming across as desperate and by going with your strengths you give yourself the best chance to succeed.
By simply setting your intentions to attract women your male radar will automatically pick up on any good energy you get from women in your vicinity and when you make your approach run only do or say what you would like her to do or say to you. Ok maybe disregard the last thing I said because I know a few guys that would most like a girl to approach them with the words “let’s get naked” but that’s not going to work with many girls. Ok jokes aside but what I’m trying to stress is keep it light, keep smiling and don’t give up. She’s out there waiting for you and she wants you to find her so it’s definitely time to start looking.
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