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Attract Men

Posted on May 27, 2007 | Filed Under Attracting Men, Body Language 

There are a number of ways to attract men and in this article I will examine some of the most effective ways you can attract the right type of man for you. Depending on what type of men you like, attracting men might come down to simply placing yourself in the right environment or location. For example if you want fish you’ll go to a fish shop, if you want beef than you will head to the butcher’s. However, if you don’t know what you want attracting men still shouldn’t be too difficult for a woman who is willing to look.

For some women attracting men is easy, all they have to do is walk outside but for other women they might have to do some work, or perhaps not. Men are like cars in a lot of ways, some have big engines and make a lot of noise, others run on alternate fuel and make no noise at all. Some men are like trucks, they are big and slow but they get there in the end but then there are other men who are fast as lightening off the start but they run out of gas very quickly. When looking to attract men you might not know what type of man you really want just like you might not know what car you want until you test drive a few.

I don’t want to get into a lecture on life but I personally like to really live my life and enjoy it while it lasts. For me I think life is about having unique and wonderful experiences and to do that you might have to experiment a little. If you want to attract men maybe you could also experiment a little in the process. I can say from a man’s perspective that many men don’t know what type of woman they want till they meet her. I’m sure this goes for women as well and for this reason it would be ideal for you to potentially attract men and have fun in the process by putting yourself into a different environment. This could be especially effective for women who have previously had trouble with attracting men. Let me explain what I mean.

Let’s say you work in an office and that’s where you spend most of your working days. After work you hang out at perhaps your friends place, your local gym, the local shopping centre or at the park taking your dog for a walk. Firstly let me say at any of the places I just mentioned you could meet a man if you keep an eye out for any flirtatious signs. In your entertainment time you might go to the cinema, your favorite beach or spot by the river, certain bars or friends parties. Once again you could attract men at any of those places as well. Although, what you could begin to start doing is changing your environment on one day every week to broaden your horizons and maybe attract men in the process.

On your next day off or on one evening per week why not try something completely new to you. On your own or with a friend but let me say that women on their own look a lot easier to approach from a man’s perspective than a woman standing with her friends. Anyway, that’s up to you, having friends with you when you do new things is always a bit more fun anyway but spending some time out in the world on your own is an idea worth remembering if you want to attract men. So on your next day off why not try going to the local skydiving academy and signing up for a tandem skydive, what about joining the annual city marathon, you could take up surfing lessons through a surf shop at a beach you don’t normally go to or even join an open team of recreational white water rafters.

For the less adventurous maybe you could sign up for dance classes, take a creative writing class at the local part time college, work a half day or evening once per week with a charity group you support or get involved in a gardening class although you probably won’t find many men there but who knows, you might and he might be not only be a great gardener and green thumb but a great guy and a single man worth attracting.

My point here is it to escape the monotony of your regular life and perhaps break the cycle of being single and help in your quest to attract men. If your life seems to get stuck in a rut you may be pushing men away without being aware of it. Escaping your normal routine might add some color back into your life and even if you don’t attract men at the surf school or the creative writing class, your renewed enthusiasm in life from your new part time activity might put a twinkle back into your eye that some man may well notice and respond to.

When you decide to go and spend some time in a new environment put on the clothes you feel most comfortable in, wear a minimal amount of make up, men are never too sure about women who wear too much make up and go there with the sole intention to enjoy yourself. If you look like you are having fun this is a fantastic way to attract men since any man will think it looks inviting to be around a girl who looks like fun and is having fun. While you radiate positive energy you will attract men with similar energy. If you are angry and unhappy and go sit in a bar and drink you can imagine the sort of man you are going to attract.

I can’t speak for all men but I can speak for myself and most men I know in saying that many men love the sight of a feminine woman. Most men are attracted to women who look and dress in a feminine way, I don’t mean you should look weak and girly, that’s not my impression of feminine although some men might like that, what most men like is a woman that looks like a woman. If you are a woman reading this, you know what I mean and men love this. This is one of the ways woman can hide any slight flaws in their personality or physical appearance to attract men because men love femininity in a woman more than anything else. You could and should work this to your advantage to attract men.

One more thing I’d like to mention in regards to attracting men is to be yourself, if you are a book worm and love sitting at home reading books don’t tell a new man your favorite pastime is base jumping, he might be a book lover himself. If you really do ride bulls at the local rodeo, don’t be shy and tell him the truth, he might be into riding as well. There is nothing worse for a guy or girl than finding out the other person has been creating an impression about their life that is not true and real. Making up stories will get neither of you anywhere but telling the truth will get you where you want to be with the right guy sooner rather than later and foster the best environment for a new relationship to prosper. So to attract men why not try something or somewhere new and you might just find yourself with someone new.

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