After She Says Hi
Posted on April 18, 2007 | Filed Under Meeting People, Communication, Attracting Women
After she says hi, what do you do? Well you could turn around and run in the opposite direction and she might be impressed by what a fast runner you are or you could go over and immediately ask her to come back to your place but I really wouldn’t suggest you do either of them. After she says hi, this is the perfect opportunity for you to confidently give her a big smile but not too big and introduce yourself casually by giving her your name. By giving her your name does three important things. Firstly it immediately gives her something to call you, secondly it opens up the opportunity for her to give you her name and thirdly, if she remembers and uses your name when talking to you it gives you an indication she might be keen on you.
If you meet someone you like and you know their name you want to use their name while talking with them and you make a point of remembering their name. If you have little or no interest in them you probably won’t use their name and give them any reason to think you are keen on them unless of course you are just friends and if you’re not interested you probably won’t remember their name anyway. So after she says hi it’s your greatest opportunity to start up at least a short conversation with her and don’t be shy about it because all girls love a guy who can at least show a little bit of confidence in themselves. You don’t need to be an extravert, most girls don’t really like that either but let her know you can speak up for yourself and she will probably at least give you a chance to step up to the plate.
Don’t ever back off after she says hi because it only lets her know or gives her the impression you don’t like her. If you walk or turn away after she says hi she probably won’t say hi to you again so you need to take the chance when you see it.
Everyone is apprehensive and maybe a little shy when approaching a girl they like and someone they hope will like them but that nervousness keeps you on your toes and is a healthy way to feel. Girls have a strong intuitive ability and they can often tell when a guy is feeling a bit nervous or shy when talking to them but let me tell you, they love it when they sense it. If they sense you are a bit nervous talking to them well then they know you like them and everyone wants to be liked. So after she says hi, it doesn’t really matter what you say as long as you are polite and not too forward or rude. She probably wouldn’t say hi in the first place unless she wanted you to come and talk to her. Go for it, she won’t bite, or perhaps she will but you’ll never know unless you go.
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